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The Unpredictable Journey of Self-Discovery

The Unpredictable Journey of Self-Discovery

Cultivating Curiosity, Change, and Patience

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Alejandro Betancourt
Jul 10, 2023
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“Let go of certainty. The opposite isn’t uncertainty. It’s openness, curiosity and a willingness to embrace paradox, rather than choose up sides. The ultimate challenge is to accept ourselves exactly as we are, but never stop trying to learn and grow.” — Tony Schwartz

Life, in its essence, is a journey of self-discovery and growth. It’s a winding road filled with unexpected turns and surprising revelations. Sometimes, profound discoveries come from the most unexpected places and people.

Imagine being married for two decades, thinking you know your partner inside out. Then, one day, you find yourself in a situation that forces you to spend more time together than you ever have. Suddenly, you realize there’s a side to them you’ve never seen before. It’s like meeting a stranger, yet this stranger is someone you’ve shared your life with for years. (It’s what happened to this woman who I read her article today and inspired me to write this piece).

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