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The Magic of Mixed Emotions: How They Enhance Our Lives

The Magic of Mixed Emotions: How They Enhance Our Lives

It’s Time to Rethink Mixed Feelings

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Alejandro Betancourt
Sep 10, 2022
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“It appeared like their pain and suffering were combined feelings. But, feelings never did kill anyone. It was running away from feelings that lead to the absolute death of any relationship.” — A.A. Gupte

Mixed emotions are often seen as a negative thing. We’re told to “just be happy” or to “stop being so emotional.” But what if mixed emotions are a good thing? What if they enhance our lives instead of detracting from them?

While these feelings of ambivalence are uncomfortable, they can also serve us in meaningful ways.

It’s time to rethink mixed emotions. Here’s why they’re magical…

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