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The Dark Side of Helping Others

The Dark Side of Helping Others

When Good Intentions Go Wrong

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Alejandro Betancourt
Mar 11, 2024
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“The purpose of life is not to be happy. It is to be useful, to be honorable, to be compassionate, to have it make some difference that you have lived and lived well.” — Ralph Waldo Emerson

Helping others is fundamental to human nature, rooted in our innate desire to connect, support, and empathize with those around us. But helping is far more complex than it seems.

Beneath the surface lies a labyrinth of obligations, unsolicited support, and unrecognized needs. Navigating this intricate landscape requires understanding the nuances of help, the boundaries that must be set, and the potential for unintended consequences.

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