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F*ck It: I'm Doing Me

F*ck It: I'm Doing Me

Confessions of an Accidental Nonconformist

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Alejandro Betancourt
Jul 08, 2024
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"The individual has always had to struggle to keep from being overwhelmed by the tribe. If you try it, you will be lonely often, and sometimes frightened. But no price is too high to pay for the privilege of owning yourself." — Friedrich Nietzsche

I've chosen to carve my path in a world where societal norms often dictate where we "should" go. Living in a conservative Catholic country, I've made choices that raise eyebrows and challenge expectations. Take, for instance, my decision to become a single parent through surrogacy. Yes, you read that right. I'm raising twins solo, a choice that baffles many but brings me the most immense joy of my life.

And that's just the tip of the iceberg. I'm happily single, finding fulfillment without a life partner. For me, it's not about avoiding connection; it's about being content with the life I've crafted. Some immediately assume, "He's afraid of co…

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