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Accepting Who You Are Doesn’t Mean Settling for Less

Accepting Who You Are Doesn’t Mean Settling for Less

Is Self-Acceptance at Odds with Wanting to Improve Yourself?

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Alejandro Betancourt
May 20, 2024
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“The curious paradox is that when I accept myself just as I am, then I can change.” —Carl Rogers

You're standing in front of a mirror, gazing at your reflection. You see every fear, every insecurity, every self-doubt that has ever crossed your mind. Can you love the person staring back at you in that moment of raw vulnerability?

Now, imagine yourself five years from now. You've grown in ways you never thought possible. You've faced your demons, conquered your fears, and discovered a strength within yourself that you never knew existed. Can you love that version of yourself who has weathered the storms and emerged victorious?

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Here's the question I've been pondering: Can you love yourself while striving to become a better version of yourself?

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